She was born and educated in a haredi community, and felt she was different ever since she was young. After refusing an arranged marriage, 'Raheli' decided to come out and tell her parents about her orientation. Today she lives with a woman and even plans to marry her.

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Raheli (not her real name), 27, the eldest of seven siblings, grew up and was educated in haredi settings in a small city in central Israel. She told me she always felt something was different about her.

“As a child it was easy to understand exactly who and what I was,” she said. “I wasn’t exactly like the other girls, but I also didn’t know how to put it in words. When I was a little girl I played soccer with the neighbourhood boys and spend a lot of time with them. When I was 12 they separated me from the boys, because that’s the age that you begin to become a young woman, and a young woman must be modest.”

“I no longer has male friends at that point, but I also didn’t have thoughts about men and I wasn’t interested in them like a regular pubescent girl,” Raheli continued. “Ultimately, when I turned 18, my father realised he needed to search for a match for me and I got engaged very quickly.”

Read the whole story about Raheli at ynetnews.com

Haredi Judaism is a stream of Orthodox Judaism characterised by rejection of modern secular culture. Its members are often referred to as strictly Orthodox or ultra-Orthodox in English.

 

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